It's like talking with the wall. You keep on talking and they never reply.
Sometimes it feels like you're the only one who cares, who makes the effort to try, to maintain such a relationship. It's like you're the only one who gives a shit and they don't really care, really.
This is not a one-way street. Relationships takes time, effort. You need to nurture it. Not simply neglecting it to rot. It will not work if only one side is trying and the other is not.
They keep on giving excuses when in reality, they just couldn't be bothered by your existence. They'll only come to you when they're in pain, in trouble or in need for someone to listen to them because nobody else wants the job. After that they'll just go about with their lives as if you were never there to begin with.
...and people (or even themselves!) wonder why they broke up or stopped being friends. Go figure.
Sometimes it feels like you're the only one who cares, who makes the effort to try, to maintain such a relationship. It's like you're the only one who gives a shit and they don't really care, really.
This is not a one-way street. Relationships takes time, effort. You need to nurture it. Not simply neglecting it to rot. It will not work if only one side is trying and the other is not.
They keep on giving excuses when in reality, they just couldn't be bothered by your existence. They'll only come to you when they're in pain, in trouble or in need for someone to listen to them because nobody else wants the job. After that they'll just go about with their lives as if you were never there to begin with.
...and people (or even themselves!) wonder why they broke up or stopped being friends. Go figure.
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