Irregardless to whether your friend can make it or not, you should just invite them to your event because a) they are your friend, no? b) it's not like you have a limit of people that you're allowed to invite, unless you do, but I reckon you don't and c) if you think that by not inviting them because you know, or think so well that they cannot make it, would hurt them less, you're wrong. The damage is worse, actually.
The most probable thing to happen is that, when they see all the fun, happy pictures of the said event and realize that almost all of your mutual friends are there except for themselves, they'll feel surprised (and a not good one at it), taken aback, hurt, left out and a tad confused as to why you did not invite them or bother mentioning to them as they had to find out about it through (goddammit) Facebook when it's all over the news.
So basically, what you SHOULD do, or should have done, is to just invite them. Yang lain tu belakang cerita. It's called COURTESY, honey. And sadly, if not unfortunately, you fell short on that.
The most probable thing to happen is that, when they see all the fun, happy pictures of the said event and realize that almost all of your mutual friends are there except for themselves, they'll feel surprised (and a not good one at it), taken aback, hurt, left out and a tad confused as to why you did not invite them or bother mentioning to them as they had to find out about it through (goddammit) Facebook when it's all over the news.
So basically, what you SHOULD do, or should have done, is to just invite them. Yang lain tu belakang cerita. It's called COURTESY, honey. And sadly, if not unfortunately, you fell short on that.
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