My mother once said:
"Kenapa dengan kawan awak layan baik sangat tapi dengan adik-beradik sendiri awak cakap kasar-kasar? Adik-bradik awak, family awak la yang akan tolong awak bila awak susah nanti, not your friends la okay? You think they will actually help you? Family la yang akan sayang awak and stand by you no matter what."
And now I ask you the same. Why?
Honestly, I don't why anyone would wanna get on their bad side. Yeah sure they can be pretty hard sometimes but I think they are awesome; like brothers I never had, and that's coming straight from the heart sistah.
"Kenapa dengan kawan awak layan baik sangat tapi dengan adik-beradik sendiri awak cakap kasar-kasar? Adik-bradik awak, family awak la yang akan tolong awak bila awak susah nanti, not your friends la okay? You think they will actually help you? Family la yang akan sayang awak and stand by you no matter what."
And now I ask you the same. Why?
Honestly, I don't why anyone would wanna get on their bad side. Yeah sure they can be pretty hard sometimes but I think they are awesome; like brothers I never had, and that's coming straight from the heart sistah.
my mother said the same thing to me a few years back. masa tu happy hoo-haa dgn kwn2 sampai maybe at that time kwn no1 priority kut. but, luckily it made me think, and realize my family should be my top priority. heh. :)
ReplyDeleteibu saya juga selalu berkata begitu and babe, kata kata ibu betul. mereka lah yang telah membantu kita melihat bulan dan matahari, sebelum yang lain can. hurm.
ReplyDeletemungkin sekarang belum nampak, tapi nanti akan, makanya sayang, sila tatang semua yang kamu ada sepenuhnya.
*saya berkata kerana saya pernah merasa. pada usia yang sungguh muda. sungguh muda.*
the reason why we treat our friends better than our family is because we think that our family memang kena layan segala karenah yang sedia ada. HAHA. it's true. we just EXPECT them to deal with our shit. dah family kan? but friends, that's something fragile and anything - just about anything - can break apart a friendship.
ReplyDeleteyour mum cakap memang betul. try and think back. do you think you can treat your friends the same way as your family? i bet your friends mesti tak tahan. ahahaha. :) i am not saying that in a mean way! just trying to prove my point. :P